In total we were 8 people (her and i included) and she knew every single person who was coming along. She still lives at home, so no rent, i paid for most of the food/drinks whenever we went out (occasionally she paid), and she was working two well paying jobs next to her very few remaining uni classes so she saved up a lot. In regards to money i can see where she's coming from but to be honest it doesn't really fly with me.
Im losing my mind full#
It all worked out well and please keep in mind i did all of this next to my full time job, i can't bend reality to plan everything in 2 days as i was trying to make it work for everyone included. I apoogized to her about the -in her eyes- messed up planning process and how long it took.even though i wasn't sorry about it in the slightest to be honest.
Moreso she told me how mad she would have been if she wasn't invited along). It all came to a head the first time a week before our trip when she told me in private how much she hates the entire planning process and how she could have gone on an all inclusive beach vacation with the money it costs her to do this trip (keep in mind that she was the first one i told about the trip, and she was more than happy to come along.
Her interaction was limited to the absolute minimum, aside from bitching to me in private when she was unsure of a descision. Me and a friend did most of the planning but kept everyone up to date. All about who would be coming along, where exactly we would go and how long we were travelling was well known to everyone as we discussed everything extensively in a whatsapp group she was also a part of, although she didn't contribute much (which is ok btw). We started planning a trip to Sweden (8 days of canoeing) with a group of friends earlier this year. That was until last week where everything went to shit. She did and around half a year later we were back to dating and things had been alright since then. so i denied getting back together until she decided to seek out help. she was failing her uni classes and saw me at fault for everything, she started arguments over nothing and ultimately ended the relationship which she regretted 2 days after and came crawling back.
Im losing my mind Patch#
When we started dating we hit a really rough patch 9 months in. She suffers from depression but goes to therapy and takes medication which helped a ton.
My GF is 25 and i'm 28, together for 3,5 years. i apologize in advance for the length, i guess writing all of this will also help me to sort out my thoughts. Some outside perspective would be highly appreciated. Honestly i'm sitting here at work, completely distraught and i can't concentrate on anything for shit. I've uploaded some pictures on page 5 of the thread if anyone wants to get an impression of what the trip was like. Thanks so much the kind words of support and the advice.
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